So I have noticed that I am becoming less superficial (which is a really good thing) and less into my social life which is something that I have blogged about before. One thing that I learned after years of being superficial and a very social person is that you are always going to be pushing the limit.
Hear me out:
Say you are really into the way you look and try to be more hot and attractive at this party then at the last one. You are just going to keep doing that an obsessing about your outer appearance and how people perceive you. It will be a never ending battle and you will never be satisfied. I am not saying to not care about how you look because I am the kind of person who wants to look better and better as I go on in life...but in a way that is like "Keith, you look good and very happy." Not like wow you look like you have been working out...new clothes?.....that is the superficial response that I don't want. Another thing with someone who has a huge social life. You are just going to keep living for the party. You are just going to keep pushing the limits of how many times you can get noticed by people, talked trash about, tagged in a facebook pic and how many "friends" you have. I put "friends" in quotes because I think our generation has lost the definition of that term somewhere.
Just some things to think about. I know that I used to/still am concerned about the way I look but I am trying not to be so superficial about things. One of the things about being superficial is that it is one of those things that isn't really a sin but holds you back so much. Most of the people that look put together with their clothes and hair are probably really superficial (not to judge but this is coming from someone who is always "put together").
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